you've been blindsided and trust has been destroyed...
How To Rebuild Trust in Your Relationship or Marriage--
even if there's
been an affair!
We're relationship coaches Susie & Otto Collins
and if trust has been destroyed in your relationship and you've tried
everything but can't seem to get past your hurt, anger, and resentment,
you've come to the right place.
First, we'd like to ask you a few questions...
Please answer as honestly as possible. No one will see or know your
answers and we think you'll get a lot out of this quick exercise.
Here are the questions...
Do you have challenges communicating openly with
your partner, especially after what's happened?
Is your relationship
or marriage in trouble or dying because of unresolved trust issues and
you don't know how to get out of the limbo you're living?
Are you suffering from emotional pain because
you want more from your partner and you're not
sure you can trust him or her anymore?
Are you staying in this relationship even though the trust is gone just because you don't want to go through
the pain of a break up?
Do the lies seem to go on forever? Does he or she say they'll change but
nothing ever does?
Do you ever wonder what you can do to get the love
you really want in this relationship or marriage?
If you said "YES" to any of the questions we
just asked you, not only are you probably feeling a great deal of pain
about your situation but you are now beginning to see that your
relationship or marriage may be in more trouble than you thought as
The good news is that there is hope and here's what we want to share
with you right now about rebuilding trust...
You Can Learn From Our "Mistakes"
Help You Rebuild Trust and
Today, in addition to having a great relationship between the two of us
filled with with lots of love, trust and connection--we are also
highly successful relationship coaches.
While we are so happy to have the relationship we have and are proud to
have come this far both personally and professionally-- the truth is
wasn't always this way.
At the time we're writing this
letter to you, we've been together 16 years and before getting
together and "finding" each other, we were both married to other people
and were with them for quite a while. In fact, prior to getting
together, Susie was married to someone else for 30 years and Otto was
married to someone else for 15 years.
We didn't realize it then, but in
hindsight we made every mistake possible in
our previous relationships and marriages.
We did plenty of things that were
not what you would do if you wanted to
have that relationship filled with plenty of trust.
And still... as crazy as it may sound... as we look back on those times
before getting together and think about what we each did in
our previous marriages that
were inappropriate for someone who wanted to create a close, connected
relationship with their mate-- all we can say now is--"that's good" and
Most people don't learn from the
mistakes they make in their relationships and life and just continue to
stay stuck in old familiar patterns.
That's what we did until one day everything just clicked and in what was
like a blinding flash of insight, we knew what to do to build trust in
our relationship and rebuild it when we lost it.
Because of what we learned and what
we're about to share with you, you may not have to leave your current
relationship or marriage in order to rebuild trust and create a closer
and more connected relationship.
What we'd like to encourage you to
do is to stand on our shoulders. Learn from our mistakes and start
creating a better relationship starting right now...
Why Rebuilding Trust Isn't Always Easy
and What You Can Do To Make It Easier...
If you want to know why being able to trust or being trustable are such
big challenges in relationships today, you don't have to look any
further than your favorite media outlet.
We are all
being constantly bombarded in movies, television, books, magazines,
newspapers, emails, music, and on the
internet with the message that everyone lies and cheats--especially in
committed relationships and marriages.
The airwaves and other media
outlets are filled with real
and made up stories of infidelity and betrayal.
What we have discovered is...if you hear enough of those media messages over and over (and ALL of
us have), it's only natural that you're going to start putting a question
mark in front of everything your partner says or does. You might even be
tempted to lie or cheat because it seems that "everybody's doing it" and
it's somehow acceptable.
Because we've been in difficult relationship situations ourselves and
because we've worked with hundreds of clients to help them
rebuild trust and their relationships, we know what you're probably
saying to yourself right now...
You're probably saying something
"Yes, I get what you are saying.
It's true we are living in a world where it's more difficult to trust
than it used to be but that doesn't change my situation."
How do you turn trust around and rebuild it if you're in a relationship
or marriage where something really has happened to cause trust to be
broken or even if trust was broken in a past relationship?
What do you do then?
The short answer is... we've just created what we think is the best and
most complete program available anywhere on how to rebuild trust in a
relationship or marriage that's been broken.
Our new program is called "Relationship Trust Turnaround" and if you
want to start rebuilding trust and a closer and more connected
relationship or marriage, here are some suggestions we'll give to you
You Can Start Doing Right Now
To Rebuild Trust and Your Relationship...
If you want to rebuild trust in your relationship or marriage you're
certainly going to want to pick up a copy of our new "Relationship Trust
Turnaround" guidebook and audio program we just mentioned.
In the meantime, here are two suggestions you can start doing
Be honest and Be transparent
Sure you know what it means to be
"honest" and you may even have a good idea what transparency means.
You may also be thinking or saying
that you're NOT the problem. It's your partner.
If that's the case, we certainly
understand but here's what we mean when we make the suggestion to you to be honest and
be transparent as it relates to the idea of rebuilding trust in a
if you want to rebuild trust, you
both are going to want to decide to be honest with each other because
you want something different for your relationship.
When you "hold back"
thoughts, words and feelings, you are only partly in the relationship.
Your commitment is to "protecting" yourself and the illusion of who you
are rather than be who you are and share that with your partner.
Let us offer a word of caution here
as we're talking about the idea of saying what you mean, not holding
back and being honest.
By suggesting that being honest,
saying what you mean or speaking your truth are good things, please
understand that this doesn't mean that you're going to give yourself a
license to be mean, belligerent or think it's OK to be a verbal bully to
make up for the times when you felt powerless.
Acting in this way would be counter-productive and could take you away
from your goal of rebuilding trust.
We certainly know that this is easier said than done but if you are
going through trauma in your relationship and want ease and change, it's
time to rethink what you can do differently.
But, what about lying?
There Are Two Kinds of Lying in Relationships
and One or Both Could Be Negatively Affecting
As we see it, there are two kinds of lying:
Lying to yourself
Lying to your partner
You lie to yourself because you want to avoid looking at the truth of
the situation and how potentially painful it will be. You fear what
might or could happen if you were really honest with yourself.
You lie to your partner or your partner lies to you because there is a fear
that if the other person really knew the complete truth, it would
cause even bigger problems than you're going through right now.
This simply isn't true. If you are open and honest with each other with
the intention of connecting and healing what's happened between you
instead of blaming and judging, you'll be amazed by how big of a
difference this can make as you work toward rebuilding trust.
The interesting thing (and something you may not want to hear) is that
both partners can be doing both kinds of lying in the relationship.
It sure does get pretty confusing when this
After all if you're like a lot of
people, you're probably wondering...
How Do You
Deal With Lies in a Relationship?
We devote a good bit of time to
this question of dealing with lies and honesty in our new "Relationship
Trust Turnaround" guidebook and audio program we've been telling you about so
we'll just give you the short version here...
People often tell lies because they
don't believe that they can be who they really are or get what they want
unless they tell you what they think you want to hear.
Lying becomes a habit and a way of
manipulating to get what the person wants-- whether it's to keep the
peace, to temporarily make the other person happy or simply a game to try to get away
Lying is a coping mechanism that a person has developed that seemed to
work in the past so he or she keeps doing it.
Whether the lie is one you are telling yourself or you feel your partner
is lying to you, we suggest that you meet it with curiosity.
Remember, curiosity isn't condoning or forgiving. Curiosity means taking
a step back and opening to listening. Listen and observe with your
entire body, not only to the words but the other person's intent behind
the words that can be seen in his or her actions and body language.
If you've been lying to yourself about your situation, we also suggest
that you meet this with curiosity. You are gathering information about
your situation and just becoming curious about what's been going on
instead of beating yourself up.
A lie is a "wake up" call for your relationship. There's no trust
possible where there are lies. Get to the bottom of why the person feels
like he or she needs to tell a lie in the relationship. Forget about
"rebuilding trust" until the two of you sort out what's going on between
the two of you.
If the partner is still keeping secrets, there probably is something
that he or she is getting out of doing it. It might be a habit. It might
be a way to hold back on totally committing to relationship. It might be
a way to keep himself or herself safe from being hurt.
You Have to Become Transparent to Rebuild Trust?
When the topic of rebuilding trust
in a relationship after it's been broken comes up, invariably the
discussion turns to transparency-- especially for the partner who has
"caused" the mistrust.
Transparency means being an "open book" and not hiding anything.
You could also say that another way
of describing transparency is the art of becoming "predictable."
While being transparent or predictable is one of the best and quickest ways to rebuild
trust, it can be a source of conflict and division when transparency is
mandated for only one person and he or she doesn't feel safe enough or
have the desire to do it.
One person asked us about it this way...
"What can I do to help my partner understand that NOT keeping secrets is
one of the best ways to build trust?"
Our answer is...
If the partner is still keeping secrets, there probably is something
that he or she is getting out of doing it.
It might be a habit.
It might be a way to hold back on
totally committing to relationship.
It might be a way to keep himself
or herself safe from being hurt or it could also be something else.
As you can see, honesty, being transparent
and being predictable are things that are all critical to the trust rebuilding
process and this is just the starting point.
If you're serious about doing what it takes to turn trust around in your
relationship or marriage, you're going to want to know about
We've just created a breakthrough
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and renewing trust and your relationship or marriage...even if there's
been an affair!
A new program
from Susie & Otto Collins created specifically to help you...
Rebuild Trust in Your Relationship or Marriage--
Even After An
What Is a Relationship Trust Turnaround and How Can It Help You Rebuild
Broken Trust in Your Relationship?
Not only is a relationship trust
turnaround what you want for your relationship or marriage right
...it's also the name of our brand new program that we've spent
the last few months putting together.
"Relationship Trust Turnaround" is
more than just a book or an ebook. It is a complete "soup to nuts"
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This is a complete package of
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and rebuilding your relationship right away.
The "Relationship Trust Turnaround"
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all tightly focused on helping you heal this painful situation you're
To the best of our knowledge,
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What's great about this program is
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Because you're downloading
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waiting on a package to come in the mail.
It also means NO expensive shipping
Best of all, you can start learning these incredible secrets
and strategies for rebuilding trust almost immediately after you let us
know you want the program.
Here's what you're going to get in the
Part 1 of the Package
The "Relationship Trust
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We've organized this guidebook from our course into three parts.
In Part 1... We introduce you
to some new ways of looking at trust and what really causes mistrust.
(It's not the obvious answer and it's not what you think.)
Also in part one, we talk
about where trust building really starts. (This too will surprise you.)
Here, in part one, we guide
you through identifying your particular situation and help you to look
at your problem with new understandings
In Part 2...
This is where we lay out our exclusive, breakthrough step-by-step
process for rebuilding trust. We also share new insights about how you
truly can see the big picture that is so hard to see when you are being
blinded by the pain of what you're going through.
In Part 3... We give you specific strategies for learning to trust
yourself, making conscious choices instead of reacting, speaking your
truth from your unfulfilled or unspoken wants, needs or desires and
making requests that are able to be heard and understood--and most of
all, how to communicate with ease.
In this third part, we go in-depth in answering some of the most burning
questions you may have right now.
Here, we cover things like
forgiveness, anger and releasing hurts from the past, how to deal with
We share insights with you
about apologies, boundaries, building trustable moments, what to do if
you're wrongly accused, how to change your constant thoughts about the
past and more.
Woven within the pages of this "Relationship Trust Turnaround" guidebook are
our personal stories and the questions & stories of others who gave us permission to
use their words with the hope that their experiences would be helpful to you
as you discover how to rebuild trust and restore your relationship or
There are questions at the end of each chapter to help you examine your
specific situation more closely and to give you more clarity about your
situation and what you need to do in order to restore trust.
When you order the
"Relationship Trust Turnaround" program, you'll also get instant access
to the following downloadable mp3 audio recordings that are a part
of the package...
|Audios 1 & 2
These two audios are the recordings of
"Answers To The Ten Top
Questions About How To Rebuild Trust In A Relationship or
This presentation is nearly ninety minutes and
in these two audio recordings, we show you how to stop imagining "worst
case scenarios," our take on
"flirting," our answer to the question "is jealousy ever warranted,"
making sure your partner isn't cheating, spying. We talk about the most
important steps to trusting, dealing with lies and lying, demonstrating trustability, dealing with actual infidelity, what to do when your
partner falsely accuses you and much more...
time approx 90 minutes)
"Otto Collins Interviews Dr. Bob
Huizenga (The Infidelity Coach) About His Secrets and Strategies
for Helping You Rebuild Trust In Your Relationship or Marriage"
On this recording, you're going to
learn about 7 distinctly different types of affairs, how to deal
with these different situations, what you can do when your
partner can't or won't open to you more, how to use both verbal
and non-verbal ways to communicate to rebuild trust and much
(Recording time Approx 63
"Otto Collins Interviews Leslie
Karen Sann On Forgiveness"
On this audio recording, you'll learn new
tools for releasing blocks to forgiveness, some of the best ways
to forgive, how to use forgiveness as a tool for rebuilding
trust, when to forgive and when not to forgive, a better way to
"forgive and forget," amazing skills for opening your heart and
Approx 59 mins)
In addition to the information
described above specific to turning trust around...
You're also going to get the downloadable version of our incredible
program for creating breakthroughs in your relationship or marriage
"Instant Relationship Breakthroughs" Program
21 immediately useable and practical
ideas for reclaiming your relationship, improving communication
and rebuilding trust.
~92 page downloadable guidebook
~3 (mp3) downloadable audio recordings from three teleseminar
(about 60-70 minutes each)
In this program, we take
you through 21 immediately usable and practical ideas, strategies and
skills you're going to need to know and use as you move forward toward
reclaiming your relationship and rebuilding trust.
Each of these "Instant
is designed to help you to change directions, in small
or large ways, so that you can create the relationship and love that you
truly want instead of what you don't want.
When you order this "Relationship Trust Turnaround" program and package
You also get these 3 terrific bonuses as an additional part of
the package too...
"Relationships and Money"
As you know, money is one of the biggest
areas in relationships where conflict often comes up.
On this audio recording from an interview and live teleseminar,
we tackle the toughest of tough financial conflicts between
We will guide you through how to handle sensitive money issues
You will learn the proper way to address who
should handle the finances, whether or not to keep separate
finances and how to reconcile financial concerns in blended
We also teach you how to agree on spending money on the kids and
successful ways to approach bringing different amounts of
financial resources into a new relationship and much more. (Recording time Approx 45
Bonus # 2
Special Report From Leslie Karen Sann...
and The Art of Forgiveness"
This is an incredibly valuable 12 page
instantly downloadable companion "handout" that will help you
get even more out of the interview Otto did with Leslie on
Forgiveness that is included in this package and described
Bonus # 3
Special Report By Susie and Otto Collins
Communication Mistakes Most People Make In Their Relationships and What They
Can Do To Fix Them"
21 page special report by Susie and Otto contains the master keys on how to
start improving communication now with everyone in your life.
This will give you even more help with communicating with your
partner as you move toward rebuilding trust and restoring your
relationship and connection.
As an extra added
bonus, you'll get free tips and ideas about how to build more trust in
your relationship, as well as our love and relationships newsletter free
Here's a partial list of
what you'll learn when you get the "Relationship Trust Turnaround"
tell if this "Relationship Trust Turnaround"
program is for you...
If you or your partner has ever had an affair with
anyone while in this relationship and the issue is still an issue, then
this program is for you because it will help you reverse the damage that
lack of trust is causing.
If you are sick and tired of worrying what your partner is
doing when you don't know where they are or what they're up to-- then
this "Relationship Trust Turnaround" program is for you.
This will help you resolve this right now.
If there is any part of you that is crying out from
inside of you because of this lack of trust-- knowing that you deserve
more than you have right now in this relationship -- then you need to
get this program now and do whatever you can to start healing yourself
and your challenges.
If you or your partner are bothered by the other's flirting or outgoing
behavior and think it's too over the top for someone to continue doing
when you're in a committed relationship or marriage, then this is for you.
This program will help you get to know, understand and shift any
behaviors that you want to shift that do not promote trust building and
connection in your relationship.
If you or your partner hold
back in any way from giving more of yourselves to each other because of
trust challenges, then you need to pick up a copy of this program and
learn the strategies we teach for opening deeper and trusting more.
Life is too short to hold
back in your loving. It's our belief that love and relationships are the
things that make life worth living.
Please don't hold back.
fear that comes up for you that causes you to hold back-- get this
program now and let us help you break through these challenges so
you can start enjoying more of what life has to offer.
If you wonder how you can ever regain trust in your
relationship after all you've been through-- then we'd like to show you
how you can.
Trust and Your Relationship Around--
Here's All You Have To Do...
All you have to be willing
to do is invest a little time,
effort and energy into learning some new skills ideas and techniques
that will dramatically improve the quality of your relationship and
we'll take care of the rest.
If you have even an ounce of desire to heal the
trust issues and challenges that have come up for you in your
relationship or marriage, we sincerely believe this program can change
your relationship and your life.
On the other hand, if you aren't willing at this point
to spend another second of your time on this relationship or your
...if you are so frozen with fear that you simply aren't
willing to explore some new possibilities
...if so much has happened that you are unwilling to give it one more try, then you
should probably pass on this info and not bother downloading it.
This program is for people who want more love and a better relationship
and are willing to try some new ideas and strategies in their
relationship or marriage and do something about it.
What do you want for your
If you've read this far on this web page, we're thinking
that you're someone who really is interested in more from your
relationship than you have right now and you're willing to be open to
some new ideas to create something better.
Are we right?
We think so and if you're finally ready to get the help
you need to turn trust around in your relationship or
marriage, then here's what you're
going to want to do...
Download our complete "Relationship Trust
program now and start going through the information right away.
It gives you everything you need to know to be able to
start rebuilding trust and your relationship now (before this issue destroys your
relationship or marriage.)
This program is the most
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relationship and how to start reconnecting with your
partner or spouse. Nothing has been
To make this decision easy for you, we've priced
"Relationship Trust Turnaround" so
affordably that regardless of what is going on with the economy right
now, you'll be able to fit
this into your budget and price won't be the reason you don't get this
"Relationship Trust Turnaround" program
is different and how that's good news for you...
As you think about this program, please don't make
the mistake of thinking that this program is just a book or an
"eBook." It's much more than that.
The fact is--what we've created here is a complete program designed
completely with the goal of giving you the exact information you need to
help you rebuild trust in your relationship or marriage.
Before we decided to create this program, we looked for other books
and programs on the subject of trust building and here's what we
Sure, there are a handful of books
out there that offer trust building advice AND...
Strangely enough, most of
those books we found that focused on building trust in a relationship
are focused on
building trust in a business relationship and NOT on an intimate relationship
When it comes to advice and help on how to rebuild trust in an intimate
relationship or marriage, information on building trust in business is NOT what you want.
You want the help you get to be as
tightly focused as possible on the specific issue you are dealing with
and that is-- lack of trust in a (couple's)
relationship or marriage and the trust building and communication skills
you need to know to be able to heal it.
We've covered a lot here but here's
a quick warning before we move on:
There are some relationship resources we've found on the internet that
are singly focused on "saving your marriage" or "getting your ex back."
The one criteria we've yet to find with any of these kind of materials
is the long term focus that "Relationship Trust Turnaround" has.
Our advice is don't just go for the quick fix and focus only on how to
"save" your relationship or marriage.
You want to make sure you get the
help you need to rebuild trust and communicate to connect as well.
If you only focus your efforts on "saving" the relationship, you may be
lacking the most important part and that's the rebuilding the trust and
Our "Relationship Trust Turnaround" program helps you do both.
What we've come to realize over the
past few months of working on creating this program on rebuilding trust
in a relationship is that
there simply is no other program like this available anywhere.
why we created it.
Let's Wrap This
Most people who
have trust issues in their relationships tend to stay stuck in their pain
for a long time because they don't reach out and get the help that is
available to them if they will only say yes to it.
We've also found
that many of these same couples who
have trust challenges in their relationship or marriage continue going
down the same path they are on (sometimes for years) and
continue to let this issue destroy their relationship
Don't let this be you.
When you apply
what we share with you in "Relationship Trust Turnaround" to your
relationship or marriage, you will potentially save yourself years of
If you've been
trying to work through your relationship trust challenges by yourself, our
help can be a lifesaver.
already working with a therapist, then this information we're offering
is an affordable way to take the work you're doing with them to a whole new level without a lot of cost.
When you apply
what we share with you in this program to your relationship or marriage,
you'll be able to understand everything you need to know to start
turning trust around right now.
By knowing this
information, you'll be able to rebuild trust with your partner, regain
your connection, keep your relationship together and help you to get the
love you really want.
You owe it to
yourself, your relationship, your family to do whatever it takes to
rebuild the trust in this relationship now.
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disconnected, disrespected and unloved.
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In thinking about what the value of
this program is--ask yourself this question...
What is the value (in dollars) if you are are able to turn trust around, rebuild it and
create more of what you want in your relationship?
Is the value of the kind of
relationship you want...five hundred dollars? A thousand? Ten thousand? More
than that if you can create the kind of relationship or marriage you want?
Don't worry--even though the value of
this program is easily worth ten or twenty times what we're asking-- we
wanted to make sure we kept the price of Relationship Trust Turnaround
affordable for anyone regardless of what the economy is
order now, you'll get the entire "Relationship Trust Turnaround" package which includes...
downloadable "Relationship Trust Turnaround" guidebook
~ the four "Relationship
Trust Turnaround" mp3 audios
~ the "Instant Relationship
Breakthroughs" 92 page downloadable manual
~ the three mp3 audio recordings from the "Instant
Relationship Breakthroughs" teleseminars
~ the three additional
bonuses mentioned above, plus our love and relationships newsletter free
of charge, at the low price of only $67.00
You're smart enough to know that
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lack of trust in your relationship or marriage and not knowing how to
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